Pray for your husband’s past. Ask God to heal any wounds from his past. Pray and break the hold of the past on his life. Pray that the past will no longer dictate and have control over his actions and behavior.
During the Naija Housewives Lagos Hangout, the marriage counsellor talked about how a lot of men act and react based on things that happened in their past. It could be a childhood experience or something that happened much later in life. The fact is that unless he learns to let go, he will keep on taking things out on you.
So pray that God will set him free of the hold the past has on him so that he can face his future and be the kind of husband that God wants him to be.